Summer
Summer, we can’t wait for it but once it gets here…we HATE it! I had wonderful plans of relaxation and harmony for this summer. I was going to adhere to a strict schedule of pool, Monday, Wednesday, Friday. Errands and cleaning on Tuesdays and Thursdays. So far we have been to the pool twice and my house looks like “kids gone wild” while mom and dad are out of town. Why is it that summer sounds so great all school year, but the reality is whining and bickering and mom needing to up her medication! I would really like to hear from some of you brilliant moms out there who totally have it together. I want to know how to get the kids to quit fighting and get the chores done. How to get everyone bathed, teeth brushed and to bed before the bewitching hour. My intentions are good, but my follow through leaves a lot to be desired. Don’t get me wrong, I am not looking for June Cleaver here! I just want things to go a little smoother and to look better than a mom you would see on “Cops!”
So, my challenge is to the mom out there that can help us all, and give us that little bit of advice that will make everything fall into place. I know the basics…I am the mom, I am in charge, but it’s not working! I want peace in my house again and to feel like I can sit for a moment, without guilt! Do we ever feel like we are finished? Isn’t there always something to do? Do we ever really complete anything? I don’t want to sound like Debbie Downer here, just needing a little help from my sisters!
Feel free to lay it on me, no matter how painful or challenging. I’m sure I am not alone with my frustration. Don’t hold back, WE can take it!
Love your hair, love your dress, hope you win!
jami


Comment by Heather on 21 June 2008:
I didn’t even know you had a blog but I am so glad you are sharing it with me. I will check it often so please let me know when you are updating it. I am very proud of you and just wanting to make a change is a step in the right direction. Hang in there because I think we all feel the same way about summer and all the glorious frustration it brings with it. This summer having two extra kids on Tues/Thurs will surely add to your madness but it will grant me peace of mind because I know my children are safe and loved at all times with you. And for that I am forever grateful for you, our friendship, and that connection of sisterhood that we share. Love you!!